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Steve Shaw's avatar

Jordan, your timing is impeccable. I was just discussing this very thing with a colleague facing burnout. Comments like, "How long can we keep this up?" surfaced and made me think about all the times I missed a kid's recital or game so that I could get that summary judgment motion filed or have a phone conference with a client who couldn't speak to me any other time. Thanks for not only pointing out the wrong-headedness of that list of traits, but for sharing some guidance on improving our habits and more importantly, our perspective. The tug of war that takes place between earning and self-care can be exhausting, and finding the right balance can be elusive. But articles like this help re-direct us. Keep it up.

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Lisa's avatar

Jordan, great and necessary wisdom you’re providing. One thing that needs urgent attention is the major factor of race discrimination, intensified by gender discrimination, which drives even the best women lawyers of color out of their law careers. It’s been horrifying learning how so many are being exploited and discarded, refused equal pay, mentoring, opportunities, basic respect, to an exceptional extent that is leading to tremendous despair, failed health, and even suicide. Contrary to diversity words, the statistics seem like it’s more difficult for them to be accepted in law more than any other industry. Why is it like this for women of color more than any other segment of lawyers?

I’m only now becoming aware of what it’s really like for them while I actively research to try to help a friend who has become lost in life after being cruelly bullied out of her legal career. What can you advise for them? Thank you.

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